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It is not your duty to look pretty

Last week I was dressed really ugly and I was ok with that. I was not 100% in the mood to go to work so I wanted to be comfy. My husband was in the hallway and he told me that the outfit is not nice and I had a revelation on the spot. I… Continue reading It is not your duty to look pretty

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 Anxiety/Burnout/Depression Cycle – Life updates

It was hard for me to sit on my chair in order to write this but maybe someone needs to hear it too. I will add at the end of the article 2 videos that helped me decide I need a break because I was doing too much. I want to write a list of… Continue reading  Anxiety/Burnout/Depression Cycle – Life updates

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I don’t know who needs to hear that but, when you feel guilty for not calling people, remember that the phone works both ways.

I don’t know who needs to hear that but, when you feel guilty for not calling people, remember that the phone works both ways. Sometimes I feel bad because I am not speaking with relatives and people near me, but they did not care either. This applies also to friends and all colleagues with whom… Continue reading I don’t know who needs to hear that but, when you feel guilty for not calling people, remember that the phone works both ways.

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Losing weight update 2

I weight myself this morning and I had almost 70kg. Not bad, especially because I am in that really annoying time of the month. Yesterday I was mostly in bed because I had some muscle pains and also back pain. I started to change my office time and standing a few hours a day, with… Continue reading Losing weight update 2

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Life updates

If you started too many projects and you feel like that is stressing you out, just throw them away! Out of the house, out of mind 😀 I advise you to donate them if it is possible, of course, but I am really convinced that we should keep things that make us happy. I used… Continue reading Life updates

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Mindfulness and Trauma

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bniu1U6wvR8 I was in love with meditation and spirituality since I was 15, but because I was busy believing all kinds of crap, I never got to this type of information. I had no idea that Mindfulness was not good for people with trauma and that can make some harm rather than help. In the… Continue reading Mindfulness and Trauma

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Is weight loss a mindset?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqwQosiUhTk I took a break from drawing to write this because I just finished the above video and I was full of ideas. As I was already suspecting, mindset is really important in weight loss. I decided to watch this because I am lacking the mindset and I wanted to make life easier for myself. … Continue reading Is weight loss a mindset?

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I am tired of not loving myself

I heard today that "Vulnerability is the price to pay for freedom" so please find below my mental breakdown from yesterday and welcome to my life! '' I would like to rip off things out of my body and see how it would feel without all this pain. Some days are ok, I struggle and… Continue reading I am tired of not loving myself

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Easter Preparation

Do you know what I am preparing for Easter this year? Nothing and it feels great. In my weird new Age period, I used to believe it is a woman's duty (omg, right? rolling eyes) to help perpetuate traditions. It sounds so toxic right now, I just want to throw up.  I was talking about… Continue reading Easter Preparation

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Losing weight, fashion, and mental health

I find it funny how this blog started. At first, I wanted to write about fashion, then about weight loss and we got to mental health. I think overall, it makes sense. Sometimes we think that if you dress 'hip' or look perfect, you will finally be happy. I also find it funny that I… Continue reading Losing weight, fashion, and mental health